body-positive

My Weekend at the International Bear Convergence, a Rare Body-Positive Oasis for Gay Men

I’m at the “DILF” party at The Barracks, the longest-running leather bar in Palm Springs, where a shirtless, rotund, gray-bearded man in a chest harness walks…

What Women Really Think of Every Kind of Man Sweat

I recently saw a product that promised to eliminate any odor from any body part for three whole days. While that seems magical if we’re…

It’s Okay to Dick Shame the President

Existing in 2018 and not completely losing your mind is a tricky balance. You have to pay attention to news because that’s all anyone talks…

Are You a ‘Shmedium’?

A basic item of clothing shouldn’t induce an identity crisis. But as my short, athletically built compadres can confirm, we undertake an exhausting mental calculus…