women

In Praise of the Female Dirtbag

There’s this scene I keep thinking about in the second season of Fleabag, Phoebe Waller-Bridge’s masterfully acerbic BBC comedy about a single, early 30s, unnamed…

If ‘Men Are Trash,’ Why Do People Still Date Them?

Grace, a 31-year-old copywriter from Washington, D.C., cannot understand her own compulsion to date men. “I’m bi, so I could theoretically make my life about…

Doing It Her Way: A Conversation With 6 Women About Their Erotic Fantasies

We know so much about the sexual fantasies of American men. Gentleman dirtbag writers like Charles Bukowski and Henry Miller have spent thousands of words…

The Backward Psychology of Why Men Fight Over Women

She had told him not to message her anymore. But — bing! — there it was, another text. He knew she was dating me. Apparently,…