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Coming Out as a Trans Man in Trump’s America

In his new memoir, theater producer and dramaturg P. Carl grapples not just his own transition, but transitioning against the tumultuous backdrop of a Trump presidency and #MeToo

Meme Culture on Grindr Is a Hole New World

In the hidden world of sex memes on Grindr, shitposting takes on a very different meaning

Let Me Analyze That Bussy

Bussy, boogina, pooter clat, goochata… For the gay community, pet names for the anus can reveal a lot about who we are — and our place in a heteronormative society

Reinventing the Third Wheel

I approach couples at parties with excitement and caution: excited I might get tag-teamed by two hotties, but cautious of the guilt, jealousy and drama