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Why We’re All So Turned On by Our Gender-Swapped Snapchat Filters

The dog Snapchat filter makes me look like a hoe, not a puppy. The big mouth filter is supposed to be funny and cute, but…

The Cost of Misusing the Term ‘Emotional Labor’

Earlier this month, in a viral article for Harper’s Bazaar about the female burden of male friendlessness, writer Melanie Hamlett referred to the concept of…

The Idea That Men Should Be the Sole Breadwinner Is Surprisingly Recent

When I gave up full-time work two years ago to hold up my side of the bargain — the deal with my wife had gone…

Until Women See Pay-Gap Justice, Is It Our Duty as Men to Pay for Dates?

He was wearing a plaid shirt and jeans, and had a casual mop of mahogany hair and a nervous, chittering laugh. She was more done…