fighting

Not Getting Along With Your Partner? Try Recording Your Fights

If you’ve ever been in a relationship with terrible fights — the maddening, circular logic, the petty insults, the denials and deflections galore — then…

How to Break the Silent Treatment (Assuming You’re Not an Asshole Who Deserves It)

The term “silent treatment,” chillingly, comes from 19th-century prison reform. Instead of physical punishment or grueling work, which was believed to do nothing to truly…

The Forever War Between Cops and Firefighters

This month witnessed a breakdown of municipal trust in the city of Troy, Michigan: Some 20 police officers admitted to entering a local fire station…

The Backward Psychology of Why Men Fight Over Women

She had told him not to message her anymore. But — bing! — there it was, another text. He knew she was dating me. Apparently,…