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The Quest for ‘Farm-to-Disco’ Poppers

As I recalled earlier this year in the introduction to “A Fascinating History of Poppers,” my first experience with Amyl Nitrites — the beloved recreational…

The Night I Got Drunk Enough to Tell My Wife I’m Gay

Though he’s now the out-and-proud host of Queer Ghost Hunters on YouTube and goes by Lana Del Gay on Twitter, coming out and being out…

Why Did We Grow Up Thinking a Piercing in the Right Ear Was Gay?

On the playground, it was a truth so firmly established that defying it meant social suicide: If you have an earring in your right ear,…

The Brilliant ‘Disruptive Faggotry’ of Cakeboy Magazine

Cakeboy is a gay men’s magazine that isn’t “gay” or “male,” according to its founder Sean Santiago, who chooses not to use those words to…