Dear Mr. President,
My name is Jeff Gross, and I work in media. More specifically, I work for a men’s magazine within which you’re often featured. It’s my job to keep up with your goings on. I have an alert set up on my phone so that I know when you fat-finger your tweets from your toilet. This is all to say, I see and hear too much of you already—I DO NOT WANT YOU TO SEND TEXT MESSAGES TO MY PHONE. I don’t care if these texts are for emergencies only. Personally, I’d prefer a tornado drop a house on my head Wicked Witch-style than know you can send me unblockable alerts.
This is me, pressing ?to opt out.
Warmest regards,
Jeff
P.S.: Have you heard of MEL? Because if not, you should check out all of today’s best stories below!
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Booker v. Kavanaugh
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I Love Lamp
Moth memes are so hot right now among the Very Online.
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And while the half-life of any popular meme is barely a fortnight, this particular meme has had the wonderful side-effect of increasing offline interest in its very real-life subject: Moths. And for someone who is both Very Online and afraid of moths—like Miles Klee—this is a welcome turn of events.
Do Svidaniya, ‘Star Wars’ Trolls
Remember how fucking pissed everyone was about The Last Jedi? Yeah… about that. According to media/technology scholar Morten Bay, that was largely the effort of political trolls. Specifically, the Russian kind.
Here's my paper (final draft) on politicization of #StarWars fandom & #TheLastJedi, accepted for pub. in First Monday. It shows ~50% of criticism directed @rianjohnson was political trolling, some of it likely from Russia. Also shows haters=small minority. https://t.co/fFGSxJToi5 pic.twitter.com/BUCJLpl0FI
— Morten Bay, PhD (@mortenbay) October 1, 2018
So why would a bunch of “bots, trolls/sock puppets or political activists” originating in Россия care about Luke Skywalker’s relationship with the Force? Three words: White. Male. Resentment.
Seven-Minute Abs
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Illiterate in America
While educational achievement has improved over the last 30 years, not much has changed in the number of American adults who can’t read. In fact, approximately 32 million people, or 14 percent of the country, are functionally illiterate. And while there are plenty of reasons why young people fall through the cracks in our education system, the effect that massive number has on our economy, on our homelessness problem and on our healthcare system can no longer be ignored.
Great, Now the President Can Text Us Directly
Tiffany Trump Receives First Ever Text From Father https://t.co/GRuTbsKfTF
— The Hard Times (@REALpunknews) October 3, 2018
When Giant Dildos Attack…
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At what point is a dildo too big? Probably when doctors are forced to invent a lasso-like device to remove a 23-incher lodged deep inside your rectum. But how did we get to that point? And if sticking giant objects up your ass is your idea of a good time, what kind of precautions should you be taking? We asked a clinical sexologist and the manager of an online adult retailer for their advice.
Wash Your Poop Hands, Ya Animals
Here’s something that’ll blow your mind: A new study has found that one in six men who take a shit at work don’t always wash their hands afterward. WTF! Guys: If you ever want to get laid ever again, wash your stinking mitts—and not just when you touch your wee-wee or drop a deuce—wash them all the time, because shit gets on everything.