lgbtq

How to Be a Guy: My Pop Culture Role Models

As I figured out my own masculinity, I turned—where else?—to comic books and TV shows for inspiration

Cruising Los Angeles’ Korean Spas in ‘Spa Night’

Director Andrew Ahn on making a film about gay Korean culture

How to Be A Guy: A Column in Transition

“Buttoning the shirts gets easier after a while,” reader Dean Davis promises MEL contributor Jay Edidin who’s chronicling their transition (and the practical challenges that…

How to Be a Guy: Doing It in Public

Why I’m writing about my transition in the first place