This Could Be Us

Reconciling My Sex Work With Larry Kramer’s Monogamy

Larry Kramer believed hookup culture destroyed our community. I believe it’s what truly connects us

I Stopped Growing My Ass Hair — And My Tolerance for Men Who Want to Change Me

How not shaving my ass in quarantine stirred memories for a long lost ex-hookup

Learning to Date My Dildo

Opening my heart (and ass) to a new type of isolated pleasure

Cruising Grindr in Quarantine

I’m trying to go off the (gay sex) grid, but it’s proving impossible — if unsatisfying