This Could Be Us

Cruising Grindr in Quarantine

I’m trying to go off the (gay sex) grid, but it’s proving impossible — if unsatisfying

What’s So Revolutionary About Monogamy?

I’m non-monogamous. My socialist thot is exclusive. That’s fucked.

I’m Not Sorry for Leaving You on Read

When I politely respond that I’m not interested, it’s never enough. Why do so many men treat rejection the same way as repression?

Cruising a Hotel Basement Bathroom in Search of My Queer Lineage

Stories of bareback sex in city parks and hooking up in bathhouses are our fables — stories of a time when cruising functioned as a vital means for gay men to not just get off, but to discover each other