how-to-be-a-guy

How to Be a Guy: What I Learned My First Year Living as a Guy (at Age 34)

Okay, look: I’m tired. My personal life is a trash fire, my country just elected an actual fascist, I’m struggling harder than usual with dysphoria,…

How to Be a Guy: Swimsuit Edition

My friend Brett is serious about Speedos. To a young, closeted Brett, Speedos represented the ultimate taboo. Even after he came out, they always seemed a…

How to Be a Guy: After Orlando

This was going to be a different column. It was going to be about height and social dynamics and being married to a really cool…

How to Be a Guy

Have you ever seen The Birdcage? There’s this scene, early on, when Armand Goldman (played by Robin Williams) is trying to teach his husband Albert…