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How to Be a Guy: What I Learned My First Year Living as a Guy (at Age 34)

From the pain of being misgendered to the newfound pleasures of shopping at Topman

How to Be a Guy: Swimsuit Edition

Six months after my top surgery, a trip to the beach is less terrifying than I imagined

How to Be a Guy: After Orlando

My transition turned my ‘straight’ marriage queer— and made my husband a target

How to Be a Guy

After coming out as trans in their 30s, our columnist discovers that performing masculinity doesn’t come easy

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